Casey and Sandy Parsons

 

North Carolina

 

March  2003

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Tubal ligation

Nov 15, 1995

Tubal reversal 

Mar 01, 2003

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Pregnancy #1

It's a Girl! 8/20/04

Pregnancy #2 

m/c

Pregnancy #3 edd

June 10, 2006

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Welcome

Sadie Maelynn Parsons

Well we now have our little girl!  She was born on August 20, 2004 at 4:02am.  She weighed 6 lbs 8 oz. 

She was such a blessing from God.

 

 


April 2006 (blessings update!!!)

 I wanted to share all the blessings God has given me with my 2nd reversal baby.  Everything was going fine until 18 weeks of pregnancy and they performed an ultrasound. They saw my placenta was covering my cervix and told me I had placenta previa (complete). I was a nervous wreck! I usually don't have one ounce of trouble during pregnancy. My doctor felt that the placenta previa is caused because I have had lots of pregnancies. I was put on bedrest and just watched closely. If I went anywhere I had to use a wheelchair. My church and everyone I know was praying. I started bleeding at 22 weeks and had to be put in the hospital. The chances of my baby living was slim at this point. I just put everything into God's hands. The bleeding stop and I was released to go home a week later. The doctor informed me I would probably give birth around 28 to 32 weeks pregnant.

I had another ultrasound at 26 weeks to check everything out again and my placenta moved 5cm toward the top of my uterus. Thank God!!! The doctor was in total shock. He said he never has seen a complete previa at 22 weeks move 4 weeks later. My placenta moved so much that it even doesn't classifiy as a "low lying" placenta. While being on cloud nine from my good news, the doctor had to break more bad news to me. The baby had ventriucalmegialy (mild fluid on the brain). So I was crushed. I knew God would heal my baby after doing so with this placenta problem. I had to see another doctor a week later so they could discuss what was going to happen to the baby.

I couldn't eat or breathe for the whole week. I prayed and tried to think of everything positive, but it's
hard to keep positive. I have to leave everything in the Lord's hands. At the next ultrasounds the fluid was completely gone and our baby is healthy (very healthy). The baby is measuring almost 2 weeks over because he is so big. Now my worries are starting to focus on, how am I going to get such a big baby out of me. All my babies have been kindof small (the largest being 7lbs 9oz). The doctor said if the baby keeps growing like this he will easily weigh around 8 1/2 to 9 lbs or even more. I'll just deal with it, I'm
just glad he's healthy.  Also during all the ultrasounds we found out it was a BOY!!. We are now going to be parents to 3 boys and 3 girls. Pretty even now.

Thanks everyone for the prayers and please just keep praying that everything will continue to go great for at least another 4 weeks, I'm 34 weeks now.



March 2006

I wanted to give an update on my 2nd reversal pregnancy.  I'm almost 27 weeks pregnant. We have had a very complicated pregnancy this time around. I've now been on bed rest for 5 weeks. I have complete placenta previa, the placenta is completely covering my cervix. I have been admitted to the hospital at 22 weeks for a bleed and thank God it stopped! Now we are looking for the baby to be born at 30 to 34 weeks. So our baby will have to be in the NICU for awhile. It's going to be very hard leaving my baby at the hospital when I'm discharged.

I ask everyone to please say a prayer to help me get as far as long as I possibly can. The longer the baby stays in me the shorter hospital stay for the baby. This is all been so scary for my whole family. It's really tested our faith. You have to give everything to God and let him do his will. This is our 6th child and probably will be our last. The placenta could have rooted deep in the uterus (placenta accreta), this is a side effect of the placenta previa. If this has happened I will have to have my uterus removed. So we really need prayers right now.

Casey Parsons


October 2005

Hi everyone! Most we remember I lost a baby in August. I want to thank everyone again for the prayers and support for the miscarriage. Well just found out I'm pregnant. I can't believe I got pregnant my very next cycle. My due date is June 10th.   I went to my first prenatal visit yesterday and everything is going
great. I had an ultrasound and the baby is where it's suppose to be and has a very good heart rate (140bmp). So my 2nd reversal baby is due June 10th.  have a long way to go. I'm now only 7 weeks.

Casey Parsons
5 kids (Sandy 13, Jamie 12, Brook 9, Erica 7, Sadie 1)
TL: 11/15/95
TR: 3/1/03
1st TR Baby: Sadie 8/20/04
2nd TR Baby due: June 10, 2006


January 2004

I went to Mexico to have my reversal on March 1, 2003. I just found out I am pregnant!!! We are all so excited. We owe all the glory to God!! If it wasn't for Him this wouldn't be happening. Another member of the group just posted about being pregnant.  She and I were next door to each other in the hospital in Mexico. For all that want the details of my reversal here it is:  tubes tied on 11-15-95. Reversal on 3-1-03. tubes are 4 to 5 cm on each side. due date is 9-11-04.


February 2003

Hi everyone. I want to say thanks for all the prayers that were said for my family. I am still a little sore, but I wanted to get my story about our trip to Rio Bravo out forever to read. The one thing I would like to get across is -- if you're thinking about making an appointment, do it! This (I think) is the most wonderful and caring doctor you could ever get to do a tubal reversal! I saw where someone asked about how many reversals they do, A LOT! Couples just keep coming. While I was there I got to meet Misti and her husband from the group. They are wonderful a couple. Misti had already had her surgery, and I was having mine the next day and she really put my mind at ease.

Now my story:

We are from NC. My sister went with me on the trip so my husband could take care of our kids. We got to McAllen, TX @11:33pm. We already had plans to stay at the Holiday Inn Express, and they were supposed to pick us up at the airport, but when I called - the lady said 'sorry but the shuttle isn't running tonight'. So we had to find a taxi. We did but it took about 30 minutes. It was scary standing in front of the airport, just 2 women, waiting for a taxi. The Holiday was a nice place to stay. I was going to call Checker Cab to take us into Mexico, but the hotel lady recommended Red Top Taxi. This was a horrible mistake. They quoted me a price of $70 and charged me $96. He was supposed to pick us up at 12pm and got there at about 1pm. The cab driver told us he has taken several couples to the hospital, but we got so lost in Mexico. He stopped and ask about 15 people to give him directions to the Hospital. Levy said it should've taken us about 20 to 30 minutes to get to the hospital - it took almost 2 hours!

I went to check in and the hospital and no one was there that spoke English. I had the sentence "I am here for a tubal reversal" written in Spanish on a index card and showed it to the nurse she read it and went to call Levi. Levi talked with me over the phone and told me they was going to put me into a room and start the surgery prep in the morning. So the nurse got us into room # 6. Misti was just next door in room #5. Another women came in the next morning in room #2, but I'm not sure if she was from the group or not. They brought a dinner tray to us. Do bring your family member some food with you and water. Levi came at 6pm and talked with us about what they would do. He told me he would be there all that day and on Sunday.

Around 6am a nurse came and put my IV in and shaved me. They took me to surgery @8:05am. My sister didn't come to surgery with me. They gave me some "sleepy" medicine through my IV and put my epidural in. Dr.Perez came in I got to meet him right before he started the surgery. The surgery took about 1 1/2 hours I was back in my room at 10:30am. Levi came in around noon and told me about my surgery. Both tubes are great (4-5 cm). They found a obstruction in my uterus and it is blocking the opening to my right tube. So nothing can pass into my uterus (egg or sperm) and get into my right tube. They were going to remove the obstruction but I was "cycling" and he couldn't go up through my uterus while I was cycling. So if at all possible try and get your appointment around your "cycle". I now have to go to my OB/GYN in 3 months and let them do further testing and remove this obstruction. Levi gave me 80% chance to conceive through my left tube, and said I should have about 80% with my right tube when my obstruction is removed in the uterus.

Levi came in my room several times that day to check on me. He is really caring. He even talked with my sister and me for over an hour at one time. He showed us a picture of his beautiful daughter. I am very hard headed and don't like to have a "foley". So I begged him to take this out. He did. So I only had my foley in 4 hours after surgery. I was sorry for doing that later on in the day! I still had my IV in me and lots of fluids going in, and what comes in must come out. I was up every hour using the bathroom. I was so sore and I got my incision bleeding. I also bumped my hand into the wall of the bathroom and made my IV pour blood at 3am in the morning. Levi laughed and said I told you so. He said "The lady in room #2 is sound a sleep because she left her foley in." I felt like a fool.

As far as the hospital goes it is very clean and everyone is so nice. You can't understand their language, but you can understand their expressions and they will smile at you all the time. My surgery was $1850. On Sunday Levi called a taxi for us so we wouldn't get lost again. The cab driver's name was Joe Galvan. We did a detour and went to Reynosa to look around and then back to McAllen. He charged us $145 to do all this. But believe me he was worth every penny of it! We shopped around Reynosa about 2 hours and he walked with us everywhere we went. He showed us sights we would not have been able to see. He got us good deals on some of the gifts we wanted to being back to our kids. He was a wonderful can driver.

Going back into USA wasn't hard at all. They asked us why we went into Mexico and we told them for a surgery and shopping. We showed them our gifts we brought and they let us through. No big deal at all. We stayed at the Fairfield Inn that night. It was $73. It was so much nicer then the Holiday Inn. Their airport shuttle didn't shut down on us. So everything went smoother.

It's so nice to be home, but I would do this again in a minute!!. It takes planning and I was able to that because of all the other women in this group. I would have been so lost with out this group. I want to say -

Thanks so much!!!

Casey & Sandy Parsons



 

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